Shaken Baby Syndrome
Coping with a baby's non-stop crying is very frustrating.  However, do not allow yourself or anyone to shake the baby!  Shaking does not stop the crying.  The baby is too young to understand that the crying makes you upset and angry.

Any injury caused by shaking a baby or toddler is called "Shaken Baby Syndrome."  Shaking can cause blindness, brain damage, cerebral palsy or even death.

Being too playful with babies can also cause damage.  Do not toss them on your knee or foot, or spin them around.  Anything that causes the baby's head to flop back and forth can cause damage.

 

Try your best to comfort the baby

The best way to cope with the crying, is to learn what to do for it.  The first thing to do is to make sure all the baby's basic needs are met:
bulletDoes the diaper need changing?
bulletIs the baby hungry or thirsty?
bulletIs the baby too warm or too cold?
bulletIs the baby bored or lonesome?
bulletIs the baby sick or have a fever?

Tips for quieting a crying baby

Try and stay calm.  Babies can sense tension.
bulletGently walk, dance or rock with the baby.
bulletHold the baby close to you and breathe slowly and calmly.
bulletCheck for fever or swollen gums.  If the baby is sick, call the baby's health provider.
bulletCheck the baby's clothing.  Make sure it's loose enough and that fingers and toes are not bent.
bulletTake the baby for a ride in the stroller or in a car seat in the car.
bulletWrap the baby in a soft, warm blanket.
bulletRock the baby in a carriage while you watch TV or read.
bulletCarry the baby in a soft, front carrier.
bulletTurn on music, run the vacuum, dryer, dishwasher or run the water in the tub. Babies like consistent, rhythmic noise.
bulletSing or talk in a quiet, sing-song way.
bulletOffer the baby a noisy toy.  Shake or rattle it.
bulletLay the baby tummy down on your lap.  Gently rub or tap the baby's back.
bulletMassage the baby's body and limbs gently.
bulletPut the baby in a wind-up swing.
bulletOffer a pacifier.
bulletCross the baby's arms across the chest, and gently hold them.  Talk in a calm and soothing voice the whole time.
bulletIf nothing else works, put the baby in the crib and close the door for a few minutes.  Go to another room and calm down.  Turn up the radio or TV.  Check on the baby every 10-15 minutes.  The baby may just fall asleep.
bulletAsk for help.  Have someone you trust come over and care for the baby while you take a break.

Remember:

bulletBabies don't always follow your schedule.
bulletWhat works one day to comfort your baby may not work the next time.
bulletThe baby is not trying to be difficult.

Never Shake The Baby!!!!

* This information is not a substitute for professional medical care.  Diagnosis and treatment should be done only by your health care provider. For more information contact your local health department or physician.