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Colic
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| How is colic different from other crying? | ||||||||||||||||||||
| Unlike other crying, the colicky baby has a high-pitched, non-stop painful cry or scream. Colic becomes predictable and develops a pattern. Some infants have bouts with colic only once or twice a day - at about the same time each day. With others, the colic occurs after nearly every feeding. | ||||||||||||||||||||
| What is colic, exactly? | ||||||||||||||||||||
There is no exact definition, and there is no
"test" for colic. However, it's most often defined as
severe crying and abdominal pain that involves:
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| How long does it last? | ||||||||||||||||||||
| Colic begins in the first few weeks of life and gradually disappears within 3-4 months. By this time, babies can maintain a more upright position which helps their digestion. (Poor digestion is often blamed for colic.) | ||||||||||||||||||||
| What causes colic and what doesn't? | ||||||||||||||||||||
| No one is sure what causes colic and there
seems to be no "cure." But even though no one knows a lot
of guessing, blaming and advising goes on about colic which only makes the
bewildered parents more confused. In reality, the cause of colic
still remains a mystery.
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| Getting through a colic attack | ||||||||||||||||||||
| There are no clear-cut cures to stop the
colic. However, you may be able to control the crying with
suggestions that have worked for other parents. The most important
thing you can do is to keep calm yourself. Do everything gentle and
nurturing you can think of, even if you never understand why the baby is
crying. If you CAN possible identify the reason for your baby's
crying and respond the right way, you may be able to keep the baby from
getting so frustrated and wound up to begin with. If the crying
persists after you've tried one response, just try another. Many
things work for a little while. However, the baby's getting older is
what ultimately works.
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| General Suggestions | ||||||||||||||||||||
***Too much heat can burn your baby's delicate skin. |
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| Soothing movement and sounds | ||||||||||||||||||||
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| Comfort Training Program | ||||||||||||||||||||
| A new concept called the "Comfort
Training Program" has shown some remarkable results in controlling
colic. The concept is explained in a small book titled
"Stopping Baby's Colic" by Ted Ayllon, PhD. He claims
parents can train their baby to stop the excessive screaming and quietly
listen to music instead.
The week-long program teaches you how to alternate 3-minute crying "tension release" periods with systematic, controlled intervals of music. The training teaches the baby that his/her calm periods are rewarded with music, which he/she can hear only if he remains quiet. You learn to track your baby's progress with a Crying Diary. Within 3 to 7 days, if your training is done correctly, the colic-type crying of most babies goes down by 75% - 90% ! Hard to believe, but anything is worth trying to stop the screaming. Ask your pediatrician for more information, or find the book in a library or bookstore. |
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| Changes in feeding may help the crying | ||||||||||||||||||||
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Formula fed babies Switching formulas has worked for some parents, However do not switch kinds before consulting your health provider. They'll discuss other brands with you and teach you how to "test" another formula. Most formulas are cow's milk based which some babies are allergic to. Iron-fortified formulas might also contribute to colicky behavior, like fussiness, spitting up, constipation and/ or diarrhea. Some parents have had luck switching to a soy or hydrolyzed-protein formula instead. Other tips for formula fed babies:
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| Breastfed babies | ||||||||||||||||||||
| Breastfeeding is not to blame of colic , and
babies never allergic to their mother's milk. However, what the
mother eats and drinks IS passed along to her baby in her
breast-milk. Certain foods may trouble the baby.
Many mothers give up drinking cow's milk to help control the colic. In fact, some say they've given up all dairy products for a period of 3 days to see if this helps. If the baby shows any improvement, they continue to eliminate all dairy products for 3 weeks. This is enough time to make sure that the baby's system is free of all dairy products. If the baby is still fussy, it can mean he/she is sensitive to other things as well. Discuss your diet with your health provider or location consultant. They'll teach you how to "test" what you are eating and the effect it has on your breastfed baby. |
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| Dealing with your frustration | ||||||||||||||||||||
| Frustration and helplessness can all too
easily turn into anger. Any time you fell frustrated, try calling
Parents Anonymous in your community. Or, get someone else to care
for your baby for a while.
If you can't find anyone to help you, try going into another room and watch TV or listen to the radio. Crying will not hurt your baby. Don't feel guilty about leaving the baby once in a while. In order to keep your own physical and emotional well-being intact, a 15-minute break is a must for you. Be sure to give yourself this time away from your baby so you don't get too frustrated. Also, try to get enough rest yourself. A baby with colic is physically and emotionally exhausting. Ask others for help. This way, you'll be able to stand the stress, and in turn, better able to love and reassure your baby. |
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| Coping with the Crying | ||||||||||||||||||||
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* This information is not a substitute for professional medical care. Diagnosis and treatment should be done only by your health care provider. For more information contact your local health department or physician. |